When we think of music, we often think of joy - dancing in the kitchen, singing in the car, or toddlers giggling as they bang a drum. But music does more than bring smiles. It also provides powerful emotional support for children as they grow, helping them navigate big feelings in a safe and healthy way.

Music Gives Children a Language for Feelings

Before children have all the words to describe what they’re experiencing, they have music! A soft lullaby can soothe sadness, a steady beat can release frustration, and a playful song can lift a gloomy mood - I'm sure you've already learned this while changing your fussy child's diaper or calmed them in the car. In our classes, children often express emotions through movement, rhythm, or vocal play long before they can explain what they’re feeling.

Music Helps With Self-Regulation

Young children are still learning how to manage their emotions - how to calm themselves down when upset, or how to wait patiently when excited. Remember, they're still developing impusle control! Research shows that engaging with rhythm and melody helps strengthen these skills. Something as simple as tapping to a steady beat can slow breathing, lower stress, and create a sense of calm.

Music Builds Connection

One of the most comforting things for a child is knowing they are not alone in their feelings. When families sing together, children feel held and supported, both emotionally and physically. This bonding experience reassures them: “We’re in this together.” Even on tough days, a shared song can turn a moment of frustration into one of connection.

Music Creates Safe Expression

Not all emotions are easy to talk about. But through music, children can safely explore and express joy, sadness, excitement, or anger. Whether it’s pounding on a drum, twirling to a happy tune, or humming quietly, music allows children to “try on” emotions and release them in healthy ways.

At City Lights Music Together, we see music as more than just fun - it’s a tool for emotional growth and support. Every class is designed to give children space to feel, express, and connect, while giving parents tools to bring that same support into everyday life. Your teacher will share stories, tips and ideas for you incorporate music and song into your everyday life as a parent, and you'll hear from other parents who have also found ways to use music at home. 

Because at the end of the day, music doesn’t just teach notes and rhythms. It helps children feel seen, safe, and understood - and that’s a gift that lasts long after the song ends.

As parents, we're always looking for the best way to prepare our kids for school. While academic skills are important, they're not the only piece of the pie that matters! Early childhood educators consistently emphasize the magic of music education to foster essential developmental skills. At City Lights Music Together, we align our classes with these expert recommendations that help get your child is ready for the next step in their educational journey.

Music Enhances Key Developmental Areas

Both the National Association for the Education of Young Children (NAEYC) and Zero to Three recognize that music activities promote development across multiple domains:

• Language Skills: Engaging with songs and rhymes helps children develop listening skills, expand vocabulary, and understand the rhythms and patterns of speech.

• Cognitive Abilities: Music stimulates brain areas involved in memory, attention, and problem-solving, laying the groundwork for academic learning.

• Social-Emotional Growth: Participating in group music activities fosters cooperation, turn-taking, and emotional expression.

• Physical Coordination: Actions like clapping, dancing, and playing instruments enhance fine and gross motor skills.

Music Is a Natural Learning Tool

Music is a universal language that transcends cultural and linguistic barriers. For infants and toddlers, exposure to music through singing, movement, and rhythm supports early development in a way that's both engaging and effective. Zero to Three highlights that such musical interactions not only promote hitting those developmental milestones but also strengthen the bond between caregiver and child, creating a rich environment for learning and growth. Remember - your child learns best from those they're closely bonded and attached to - that's YOU!

Preschool Readiness Through Music

More important than ABCs and 123s, preschool teachers look for certain behaviors and skills in new students, such as:

• Ability to follow directions

• Social interactions with peers

• Emotional regulation

• Communication skills

Our classes naturally support these areas. Through singing, dancing, and playing instruments, children learn to listen, wait their turn, express themselves, and cooperate with others - skills that are directly applicable in their preschool setting.

At City Lights Music Together, we offer classes designed to nurture your child's development through music in a fun and playful way! Our programs are rooted in research-based practices that align with NAEYC and Zero to Three guidelines. When you join a class, you're giving your child a head start in building the skills necessary for a successful transition to preschool when they're ready.

If you’ve ever peeked into one of our classes, you know what it looks like on the surface: children singing, dancing, banging on drums, shaking egg shakers, laughing, and sometimes just sitting quietly and taking it all in. It’s joyful, it’s musical, and it’s a little bit chaotic in the best possible way.

But there’s something deeper happening underneath all that perceived chaos. 

Music education - especially in the early years - isn’t just about learning to keep a beat or match pitch. It’s about supporting whole-child development in a way that’s joyful, natural, and incredibly effective. Here's how:

1. Cognitive Growth Through Pattern Recognition

Music is full of patterns - melodic, rhythmic, structural. When children experience and play with these patterns, they’re actually strengthening the same part of the brain that supports math and language development. Every time your child anticipates a beat drop (you won't believe it when you see how little babies can do this!), sings the “la la la” part of a song before it comes, or imitates a rhythm pattern, they’re building neural connections that support memory, sequencing, and problem-solving.

2. Language Development and Early Literacy

Singing helps children hear the subtleties of speech - pitch, tone, and rhythm. This is called "prosody," and it’s a foundational piece of early literacy. Babies who babble along with music or toddlers who sing nonsense syllables are actually laying the groundwork for clearer speech, stronger vocabulary, and better reading comprehension as they grow older. 

Plus, musical play encourages turn-taking and communication, both key pieces in early language development.

3. Social-Emotional Skills

Music invites children into shared experiences. When we all sing the same song or move in the same way, we’re creating a sense of connection. In early childhood, this matters so much. Group music-making helps children practice empathy, cooperation, emotional expression, and even self-regulation.

And for shy or hesitant children, music offers a safe way to participate - whether they’re singing full voice or just swaying gently to the rhythm they are always a part of our music-making circle and are welcome to participate in whatever way they like.

4. Motor Skill Development

Clapping, drumming, spinning, jumping, tapping sticks together - these aren’t just fun; they’re supporting both gross and fine motor development. Coordinated movement to a steady beat helps children develop balance, timing, and body awareness - all of which are essential for everyday tasks and school readiness.

5. Parent-Child Bonding

One of the most beautiful aspects of Music Together^® is the way it brings parents and caregivers into the learning process. When you sing with your child, even if you think you’re “not musical,” you’re modeling joy, connection, and presence. That’s powerful. Children don’t care if you’re in tune - they care that you’re with them.

At City Lights Music Together, we believe music is every child’s birthright - not just because it’s fun (although it is!), but because it supports development across every domain in the most natural way: through play, connection, and joy.

And the best part? You get to be part of it.